I can remember your first day walking up Memorial's steps. You weren't expressing it, but I knew you were nervous. Yet, here we are four years later and you've managed to make so many friends, be on homecoming, met your amazing boyfriend and somehow still never lost sight of who you were that August day in 2015. I. Am. So. Proud. Being your big sister, I have some life lessons I learned during this transition and I promise to only share the ones that are somewhat applicable to you.
1. This summer is full of many exciting firsts but it is also full of lasts, embrace every moment you have left with your high school friends. This isn't to say that you won't stay friends with some of them, but I can guarantee things will never be the same after this summer. Go to as many grad parties as you can, make as many memories with the ones you've loved for the past four years because time will soon go faster and you all will get busier.
2. Number one isn't just for friends, it's for family too. Hug mom and dad when you can and make time for them as well. Once you go to college, you will realize how much you cherished those family dinner and movie nights. While finding your own independence is something to look forward to, losing it can also be a heartbreaking process.
3. Save at least some of your graduation money... Don't be like your big sister and blow so much of it on dorm decorations that you don't need. I went overboard. Saving up this summer could mean you don't need to find a part time job so quick. That time to adjust will make things easier.
4. Although I keep reminding you that there are a lost of lasts, don't get caught up in them. Not only will it ruin the moment, it will prevent you from seeing the beauty in some of your lasts. Hug your friends because you love them, not because it might be the last time you do for some of them. Look at your school with admiration in order to remember the memories you made inside those walls, not because you are thinking about how you will miss it.
5. When you walk across that stage, look over your shoulder to your class, the parents and all that blue. I get you may be nervous and want nothing more than to get off that stage, but please look. All of those students who struggled with you, loved you, maybe some even disliked you but they were all part of your experience. Once you are in college and reflect on your high school years, even that strange kid who never talked to you will create a sense of nostalgia. Every detail makes memorial home. Look at all the parents with their cameras and their goofy smiles. They are proud and they should be. Allie, we are so proud.
6. When you make new friends at WKU, have fun but don't forget we will still be in the same city and that I want to see you. Heck, you moving to college may mean less time with our parents but it actually means more time with me! I am so excited to see how many more ways you will amaze me in college.
Love,
your proud big sister.
